If I never did anything new, I’d still be:
- Working at Fleet Mortgage Corp. as a customer service rep
- Living in Waukesha in a townhouse I didn’t really want to buy in the first place with my first husband
- Singing in the Florentine Opera chorus
- Dreaming of doing more with my life
I wouldn’t have:
- Moved to DC in the first place
- Sung with Washington Opera
- Moved to Baltimore to go to Peabody (which involved leaving my first husband)
- Met and married my second husband
- Moved back to Milwaukee (there are some quibbles about that but…)
- Sung in Chicago with Lyric and other groups
- Become a voice teacher
- Started my blog
- Run a 5K (twice)
- Started singing cabaret
- Moved back to Baltimore
- Sung in New York
- Opened Mezzoid Voice Studio
- Started the Curiously Stronger Performing series of workshops
- Met an incredible number of phenomenal friends, colleagues, and students (and students who became colleagues, colleagues who became friends, etc.)
I would have been:
- Unhappy
- Unfulfilled
- Incurious
I am now:
- Happy
- Fulfilled but looking for more ways to branch out
- Still curious

What are you afraid to try?